TIPS FOR HEALTHY AND SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE LIFE

Sameen Fatima Khan
4 min readSep 10, 2021

Hello everyone!

Today I will share simple things with you people that will help to make your marriage A happily ever after. The article is based on my personal experience and is very easy to go through. You can share your thoughts and experience in the comment section.

The factors I am going to discuss somehow you already heard one way or the other. But in practice, it’s hard to go with them. There is a common mindset of people that a happy couple has no hardships and challenges in life. And they are living a fanciful romantic life. But I would say that “Life is not a bed of roses for many of us.”

You have to go through a lot and have to face many uncertain situations or, you could be in a tight spot you never had before. But you have to be patient in such circumstances.

Following are the things that you should adopt to make your relationship and bonding strong.

  • Mutual understanding

It is a common misconception that marriage only needs love. But in reality, it is a mixture of so many other things. Mutual understanding is one of the most salient components of married life. You cannot make your relation for the long term without this. You have to take care of your partner’s feelings and expectations. Before taking any decision, you must go along with your partner. As it is the right time where both of you could cooperate on mutual grounds, and you could share your thoughts. And give value to each other’s words or, it is ok when the other person disagrees with you. These are the small steps that lead towards a deep connection among a couple.

  • Make your life love-filled

We cannot deny the fact that marriage is something above love. But on the other hand, we cannot survive without love. With all other features of marriage, love is one of the basic and obligatory. You should always treat your spouse with affection as “Love conquers heart.” Love is when you accept the other person with all goods or bad and share your everything, even your tiniest moments of joy and the moments of melancholy. Always compliment your partner as it signifies how important the next person is for you. Give comfort and soothe each other. When you feel that your partner holds you with love, care, and affection, you feel like you are in HEAVEN. Love is when you adopt the behavior and discipline that your better half expects from you, as it gives happiness to both of you in the same way. Love has no boundaries so, express it as much as you can to your partner as it will bloom your life.

|” THERE IS ONLY ONE HAPPINESS IN THIS LIFE TO LOVE, AND BE LOVED” (George Sand) |

  • Show Respect

Marriage is the name of sharing great years, months, and days, and may LORD grant a long and lifetime togetherness to all the couples. This long period reveals all. You get to know the darker and brighter side of your better half. When you accept each other wholeheartedly, then you have to show respect to each other. Never subside the factor of self-respect, as it is the very first thing you expect in any relationship. But, when it comes to husband and wife, they should maintain the factor of respect even when you are in a situation arguments as respect comes first than any other thing. And it is a vital part of married life. When you show gratitude and regard to your partner then, others respect your partner too.

  • Be open

Always be open to each other. Never hide anything from each other. Share your problems and issues. In this way, you can better understand each other and solve your troubles and difficulties. Express your feelings and emotions when you are happy or angry with your loved one. Always communicate and be frank to each other no matter what but, never stay silent for too long as silence brings gaps and distances between a couple. Openness leads towards sturdy bonding.

  • Always be faithful

Be honest and sincere with your partner. Never make your relationships on lies as it will not last for long. It is not appropriate to hide things from your partner. When you take wrong actions without mutual consent, it will bring disaster in your relationship and lead to mistrust because trust and faithfulness are the foundation of relation.

  • Spend quality time

Make great memories and time cherishable. Plan romantic dinner dates to surprise your soul mate. Cook food of each other’s choice for dinner. Go shopping together. Arrange a roadside trip with your loved one. Show thankful behavior as sometimes you only need words than action.

  • Maintain personal space

Don’t forget that you have a personal life along with marriage. Always give space to each other so both of you can enjoy your own time too. You have to respect the privacy of your partner cause when you will do so it, will go on in the same way for you as well.

These are the simple techniques that will lead you towards a successful and happy couple. In the beginning, it will be difficult to adopt changes but, once you start practicing rest will be easy.

|” COMING TOGETHER IS A BEGINING, STAYING TOGETHER IS PROGRESS, AND WORKING TOGETHER IS SUCCESS” (Henry Ford)|

Thank you!

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